New Year's resolutions have never really been my thing. A resolution sets off with an outer focus on something out there that's already separate from who you are right now. "I will..." I focus my willpower and decide on a course of action to follow and pledge to change not just what I do, but, in essence, who I am too. Most of the time, a resolution comes from a lack mentality, based on something I perceive is wrong with me. The assumption being that I am not good enough as I am, with some guilt and shame thrown in for good measure. Unfortunately, I know too well that the outer is completely outside my sphere of influence. Even my own skin, body and hair keep changing on me.